There's a journey most take in prayer: from praying out of fear to praying out of love. Here is a breakdown as I see it.
A) Rarely or Don't Pray
Non-religious people don't pray often, if at all, until fear takes over—like being a soldier in a foxhole or having a loved one hospitalized. Then, this person seeks Divine intervention.
B) Situational Believers
These individuals thank God for the blessings they receive, such as an athlete who performs well under pressure or a businessperson who unexpectedly closes a deal. They are grateful for having God in their lives.
C) Ritualists
Praying the Divine Office is a demonstration of a more advanced prayer life. A friend, returning from an exhausting business trip, took a taxi from the airport to his home. During the ride, the driver unexpectedly pulled into the center median, stopped the car, opened the trunk, took out a rug, and began to pray. Ritualists regularly worship the Holy Other. They are devout.
D) Inspired
These rare individuals constantly see the Divine Mystery everywhere. They feel God's presence during the darkest nights. They commune with God at least once a minute. For them, life reflects Divine love.
In the evolution of a prayer life, ritual gives way to relationship, and presence becomes everything.
In fear, we cry out for help,
In gratitude, we thank,
In devotion, we practice,
In love, we become the prayer.
Where are you now?